Text Box: Be Happy This year make your priority your own joy and happiness, now often when I say this people are worried that I am teaching selfishness. But if you are not aligning yourself with joy, inspiration, appreciation, peace, health, wisdom, self empowerment and joy, with everything that is goodly and Godly, you cannot be of benefit to others, but if you choose to focus on being and creating love within and around you and that includes self love, you become a conduit for love and your joy, happiness and inspiration can benefit and uplift others, and in that way your way of being becomes a gift to others, the greatest gift you can give to the world this year is your own happiness. Realize that it is not anyone elses job to create your happiness. Choose appreciation as your dominant attitude, focus on the positive aspects of everything and everyone and be responsible for your own happiness. Choose a happy life. When you come to the realize that you can choose a joyful, happy life through what you choose to believe and through the thoughts you think. It is a very empowering. Every feeling you feel and action you take stems from a thought, so choose which thoughts you wish to entertain. Critical thoughts or appreciative thoughts? Critical thoughts create negative feelings and actions while appreciative thoughts add value, they create positive feelings and actions, for many people critical, negative thinking is simply a habit and with conscious effort it can be changed, the easiest way is to notice how you are feeling and then consider what thought created that feeling. Then choose a new more empowering, joyful thought, Joy is your natural state of being, you are supposed to feel good. So always choose a more joyful, caring, kind, peaceful, inspired thought. And watch your life become a celebration of joy. To receive “The Positive Minute” please email or simply click on: deborahnel@telkomsa.net and you will receive one each week after it has been read on Radio Rippel. Listen to Radio Rippel 90.5 www.rippel.co.za Read it on All for women: www.all4women.co.za

              

     

                                      

 
Deborah Nel

Toastmasters  Champion  of Public Speaking for Southern Africa

 

                                                                 May 1999 & 2000

 

“The greatest gift

You can give to the people in your life is your happiness”.

 

 

“Choose joy, after all,  it is your natural state of being”

 

 

“Life is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift to God. “
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